EXCLUSIVE: Why children after the age of 15 do not listen to their parents?
FARUKH SHEHZAD
This is the major problem that every parent have been facing in their life and looking for its long term salutation without putting any effort, which cannot be happen as we all know without putting effort nothing can be achieved.
Most of the parents do not know about this problem how to be
fixed and the majority of them have good knowledge that how we can get over the
line and fix this problem.
Parents always take character building of their children
very light so they do not give proper time to their children before their age
of 15.
Few important reasons
are mentioned below
Parents get too much busy in their job, earning money,
attending parties and functions and other life activities.
Parents do not put high attention on children during their first 15 year's from birth.
Because the first 15 years are highly crucial for a good
character building of a child.
What we normally see during the first 15 year's:
We see parent’s handover mobile phone to their children and
they spend most of their time in playing video games.
Children spend all their time on television watching drama's
and cartoon's repeatedly, therefore children don't get much time for building
of good character and good human being.
Parents and Children of Modern Days Vs Golden Days
Because 80% of the learning of a child is through from ears
[By listening] and the remaining 20% of the learning is from eyes [By
Watching].
So, when a child listens or watches anything repeatedly day
after day... month after month... He actually is in a deep learning process...
By doing this everything goes deep into his/her mind and blood effortlessly' So
he never forgets it for the rest of his life.
The hard and painful
stage of life that No parents want to face
Yes, it is the utmost painful phase of life when the parents
order or request to their children to finish any job and they refused to
follow.
Why Children refused on most of the occasions:
Because Parents did not give proper time to their children
when they were in growing age.
Parents did not give proper love to children.
Parents did not explain about purpose of life.
Parents were busy making money and children were busy in
mobile phones and watching television.
Children of Golden
Day's
60, 70 year's ago there were children and they were in
Golden Day's.
Even though, they did not have mobile phones and television
and other facilities but they were well educated and those days children did
not get a fake education like us.
Those days children were well aware of the aim of life.
So, we can call them Children of the Golden Day's.
The solution to
this problem here below:
Solution is very simple… Parents need to follow few steps to make their children a good human being.
Step No. 1: Parents must restrict their life activities to grab a good amount of time to spend with their children.
Step No. 2: Parents must avoid giving mobile phone to children at the age of 1 years from 15 years or at least 10 years is a must.
Step No. 3: Parents must take steps to keep their children away from watching television at the age of 1 years from 15 years or at least 10 years is a must.
Step No. 4: Parents must give proper love to their children by spending time with them (Taking children out for picnic does not mean that you are giving proper time to children.
Steps No 5: Parents need to tell their children about the aim of life thru little stories before they reach 10 years of age.
So, these were the solution and important steps which every parent must follow to make their children a good human being in the society.
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